Richard Lee Kain

1954 ∼ 2025

Richard Lee Kain, 71, of Orange, went to his Heavenly rest on July 1st, 2025, peacefully at home in the comfort of his loved one’s embraces.

Memorial services will be held at 3:00 p.m., Saturday, July 12, 2025, at Claybar Funeral Home of Orange. Officiating will be Pastor Samuel Garrett of Love and Truth Church in Vidor, Tx.

Visitation will begin prior to the service at 2:00 p.m., Saturday, July 12, 2025, at Claybar Funeral Home in Orange, Texas.

Born in Lemon Cove, California, on May 10, 1954, he was the only son of Freida (Oetiker) Kain Neely and Jack Clilton Kain. He graduated from high school in Tonkawa, Oklahoma in 1972. He accepted Christ as his personal Savior on May 14, 2023.

Richard married his beloved high school sweetheart, Cyndi (Sanford) Kain in June 1974. They have been married for fifty-one years.

Richard was a loving, supportive husband, father, and Poppi to his grandchildren.

He was a quiet, gentle, humble man who gave his all to those who needed him. He did not like the ‘limelight’ and preferred to help others in private, subtle ways. He repaired cars, helped with home repairs, and funded young people’s college and Missionary endeavors. He purchased hot meals for the homeless standing on street corners, rescued many homeless animals, and gave of his time and treasure to those in need. Kindness and a steadfast drive to support his family and community were his hallmarks.

He encouraged his daughters to pursue their dreams. Whenever they needed him, he was always there never missing a school function, extracurricular activity and always being present in his children’s and grandchildren’s lives throughout every endeavor.

Richard was a beloved son, devoted brother, cherished uncle and loyal friend, who was well respected and admired by everyone and he will forever be loved and missed by all who knew him.

He worked over 50 years in the Construction and Industrial fields as a Master Piping Designer, retiring from Arlanxeo Elastomers of Orange, Texas in 2020.

Richard had a deep love for animals, working on old cars and trucks, and an amazing work ethic.

Richard was an extraordinary person, a devoted and faithful husband, a nurturing ‘Dade’ and doting Poppi.

Richard showed unwavering strength, courage, and commitment during his life’s battles and all throughout his life.

He was preceded in death by his father, Jack C. Kain, his mother, Frieda Neely, his beloved stepfather, Lloyd W. Neely, and infant sister, Diana Kain.

He is survived by his devoted and loving wife, Cynthia Kain; cherished children, Sarah Douglas and husband, Patrick Douglas of Groves Tx, and Hannah Patterson of Conroe Tx; beloved grandchildren, Kit G. Douglas of Groves, Texas, and Zaine B. Patterson and Zoey M. Patterson of Conroe, Texas; and dearest sisters, Lola Hockman and husband, John, of Blackwell, Oklahoma, Connie Mack of Blackwell, Oklahoma, and Donna Schuchman, of Ponca City, Oklahoma. He is also survived by many beloved nieces and nephews.

He was blessed to have long-time cherished friends, Kenneth and Rusty Green, Larry and Linda Mayfield, and Robin and Connie Bond in his life.

Honorary pallbearers: Gary Green (deceased), Casey Green, Floyd Jordan III, Lee Harris, Larry Mayfield, Roger Holsiembach, Raymond Costilla, Clint Brasher, Casey Brasher, Brock Janise, Tucker Golman, Jonathan Hucko, John Wright.

In Lieu of flowers, the family has asked that donations be made to: Sweet Pups Rescue 1065 Evangeline Lane Vidor, Texas (swe181@sweetpups.org ) or St Jude’s Children’s Research Hospital Donate by Phone: (800) 805-5856

The family wishes to extend heartfelt gratitude to Dr. Malana Griffith and Staff, Dr. Timothy Colgan and Staff, Drs. Apryl and Jason Mensah and their Staffs for their professional, compassionate medical care during Richard’s nine-year journey.

They would also like to thank Compassion Hospice for their excellent love, support, and compassionate care of Richard in his final days. Natasha Smith, you are truly a heaven-sent Angel.

There are SO many friends, Church family members, family and beloved neighbors that have loved and ministered to us above and beyond! We could not have made this long journey without all of you and we are forever grateful to all of you for your love and care. Thank you does not begin to express our gratitude!

The service for Richard will be livestream for the ones who are unable to be here. The livestream will be linked on his page under his obituary at www.claybarfuneralhome.com.

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Condolences

Cyndi Kain July 10, 2025
How do you sum up a lifetime of love, Joy, contentment, and the beauty of finding your once-in-a-lifetime love into a few words? I truly cannot begin to….💔💔 So I will thank God for sending me the lifetime mate he chose for me. I will say, as I often said, that walking hand-in-hand with you, My Precious Sweet Man, has been and honor and a privilege and I don’t know how I ever got to be blessed by such a kind and gentle, beautiful soul as you. I would not trade a single day, not the worst or the best of days, that we walked through together! I’d walk every single one of them together with you all over again! You were, and always will be my Precious Sweet Man and I’m beyond grateful to You and God for having been given the honor of being your friend, your wife, and your once-in-a-lifetime love! Rest peacefully, my Precious Sweet Man, as you’ve earned the peace and beauty you’ve now found. Your labors are over, your struggles are behind you, and you’ve completed your mission and done so with honor, dignity, and integrity! Well done and perfectly done, my gentle, kind, precious Sweet Man! I will love you forever, and ever! 💔🙏💔🙏💔
Bev Evans July 7, 2025
Uncle Rick was always kind and a little soft spoken but he always had something funny to say. As a child I loved to visit and the Sanford/Kain family parties will always be a treasured memory. My heart goes out to everyone in such a difficult time to Aunt Cyndi, Sarah and Hannah ❤️
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